Matthew Link: It's always warm in Southeast Asia apart from high mountains, so leave the heavy clothing at home. Cotton and breathable fabrics are always better than synthetics -- although cotton does wrinkle a lot when traveling! December through April is roughly the dry season in that region, although it can still rain a little. December is a good time to go in terms of temperature -- cooler than in the humid summertime. Either way, wearing more clothing (shirt sleeves and long pants) is always more respectful towards the Asian culture, especially when visiting temples and rural areas.

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Ann Arbor, MI: How should bartering be approached in Thailand, Malaysia and Indonesia? As a white-ish male, should I expect to be taken for my money at every turn?

Matthew Link: Southeast Asia is a bartering culture, and it's often expected from shopkeepers, especially in tourist areas. However, in areas filled mainly with locals, prices may not necessarily be jacked up, so it's important to ask around and find out how much things should cost from people like hotel staff and friendly locals before you dive into bargaining.

It's important to have the right attitude when battering. Many Westerners approach it in a "I win you lose" manner. It's good not to ever let the shop keepers lose face. Always be friendly, smiling, mellow when battering -- never abrasive. Battering is nearly a pastime in these countries, and people almost approach it like a game to be played. So relax and enjoy it as a cultural experience. Don't feel bad about bargaining down for items that cost less at home -- being taken for a fool is never honorable. But at the same time stay sensitive to local prices. The store owner may need the two dollars a lot more than you!

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Albany, NY: Hi Matthew, thanks for taking questions. I will be doing a 6-month travel stint through New Zealand/Australia and Southeast Asia starting in mid-October. What would be your top 10 do not miss list for destination cities? Thanks.

Matthew Link: Since I went to high school in New Zealand (yes, I had a Kiwi accent!) and have been to Oz twice, I can help you out with the whole region.

I would say Wellington is more picturesque than Auckland -- although Auckland, NZ, is bigger and brasher. But Wellington is more friendly and built around hills and a bay -- and yes, it is slightly colder.

Everyone has an opinion if Melbourne or Sydney is better. I'm sorry -- I have to go with Sydney! Maybe it's all the inlets and finger of the harbor, the no-attitude manner of the people, or just the great energy of the place. Melbourne is more artsy, cutting edge, and interesting in some ways though.

Hong Kong is a must -- to see how sophisticated China can be and beyond modern.

Beijing is also a must if only for the great landmarks and history -- not the traffic, pollution, or ugly architecture!